DD ended up getting to spend about 4 1/2 hours with my mom yesterday, so that was good. After they got back to her apartment and put her groceries away, we then figured out her Verizon bill (speaker phone). Then DD said grandma decided to balance her checkbook (she had also just deposited some checks she had, while they were at the bank). DD said she just did the math in her head, like it was nothing.
Then mom decided she'd like to hang some of her pictures on the walls. We had bought her some hardware for hanging pictures when I was there, but didn't end up hanging anything. DD said while they were hanging pictures BF called, wondering where she was/what she was doing. When they got done and it was getting close time for dd to head home they went down to BF's apartment, so DD could say hello before she left. (he's basically bedridden). His daughter was there. They went into say hello to him and he tells DD that he called SB this morning because she's not doing very well. DD said she just kinda stood there stunned for a second. She said what she wanted to say was "well, then why didn't you call my mom?!". But, she just said "oh. I just spent 4 or 5 hours with her and I think she's doing great." She said even my mom kind of had a surprised look on her face. Then his daughter said "well, she wasn't feeling well this morning". My mom said well yes, I wasn't feeling very good when I first woke up, but I'm doing fine now.
HELLO FREAKING PEOPLE!! HOW ABOUT YOU GIVE THE WOMAN A BREAK FOR A DAY OR TWO?!!!! ISN'T IT OBVIOUS YOU ARE WEARING HER OUT HAVING TO BE AT HIS APARTMENT 20 HOURS A DAY?!! HOW ABOUT YOU TAKE 2 MINUTES TO MAKE SURE SHE TOOK HER MEDICATION IN THE MORNING, RATHER THAN CALLING SB?
She has not slept in her own bed for at least 2 weeks now. Basically, she's paying $3600 a month for a place to store her stuff!
And now instead of moving him to the place he's going to be staying/cared for on Monday, now it's been changed to Tuesday. Tuesday cannot come fast enough for me.