I'm a sixty year old wife, still working and the sole income earner. Follow along as I navigate this next stage of life.
Tuesday, May 28, 2019
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I still follow a Facebook page from our old druggie/homeless infested town. I think because I keep hoping those people dealing with it will get some change/relief at some point. It's gotten worse, from the posts, though last year one new council person was voted in, who wants to get rid of the problems. (though still outnumbered by the liberal council members who want to allow it). They have tied the police's hands. There is currently an election going on for one of the council positions, where one of the local business owners/residents, who has gotten so fed up with the town turning to crap (literally and figuratively) he is running. It will be interesting to see if he wins. If he doesn't, then I honestly think there is no hope for that town. The town was always such a nice little town (we lived about 6 miles out, in the unincorporated part). Nice shops and restaurants, lots of parks, a river to walk along or fish. Now there is comment after comment about how no one feels safe to take their kids to the parks, no one feels safe to walk along the river, because of all the drug/homeless activity going on. Kids have to walk by all this to get to schools. It's just sad. My DD's future in-laws still live there. They will be retiring in a few years and sounds like they will be selling and moving.
The problem is several years ago the town let this homeless "resource center" open up right in downtown, next to small local businesses, homes, an elementary and jr. high school. It is basically run (if you dig down into it far enough) by an activist attorney, who profits off (follow the money trail) of getting these people SSI and disability. The place is just a hang out for all the druggies, inside and outside. A majority are not even from that town, they were told "free stuff" so they came and stay camped all around. Not to mention all the crime it has brought. City council meetings, for several years now, have been a constant source of the community complaining and trying to get something done about it, but anything the city has tried to do, this attorney and his group file law suits against the city, in addition to a majority of the council doesn't want to solve it. Over the past 5 years the activity from this place has spread out from a small radius around the place to all over the town. Needles, feces, public urination, etc all over the town. The main grocery store area is so bad now that the police opened up a satellite office in the shopping complex! I'm also glad my DD doesn't live in that town anymore. While her area she lives in isn't perfect, it's much better than the town she grew up in. Her town doesn't allow (and enforces the laws) loitering and camping.
DD might come over for a quick weekend visit weekend after next. She looked into flights, coming over the weekend after 4th of July (and other weekends) but the cost is back up at $335. She starts work at 6:30am, so she's thinking she could work half day that Friday, leave straight from her office at 10:30am and be over here in about 6:30pm. I had been thinking to myself I wish she could come over and we could go dress shopping for something for me (summer dress) to wear to her outdoor wedding. I know she's swamped with the remaining weekends, so I didn't even say anything. I just asked what she thought I should wear. Then she said she should come over for a quick weekend so we can go shopping :). She's going to double check with her DF and make sure he's got nothing planned for that weekend and she'll just drive over by herself. I found a couple of cute summer dresses online with Target, that they have in store. Since I rarely/never wear dresses, and in keeping with her low budget wedding (haha), I figure a $30 is a good deal :). We can start there and if I can't find anything try Kohl's or Ross. I always find dresses look totally different on the hanger than they do once I get them on. Last time I wore a dress was to her college graduation, 3 years ago, LOL.
I guess DH has a $400 check on it's way from a life insurance policy his dad had through his union. SIL couldn't even get the policy amount right in her communications - she told him and his brothers it was a $1000 policy, so he'd get $200, but it was a $2000 policy. They've still got about 2 1/2 months to wait on the will with the creditors notification.
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I hope it works out for your daughters visit. Shame about town. I lean liberal, but with a plan, and expected outcomes when there are social services started. Follow the money-such a true statement. I am frustrated with another type of program that seems to do little but line pockets of a major corporation, and when we try and add additional accountabilities, the "advocates" scream and run to the people that are in authority, but too afraid to demand outcomes.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry to hear about your old town - who the hell wants to live next door to that!! And I agree with Sam - I tend to lean liberal but there HAVE to be programmes in place for this kind of thing. But as you say, follow the money trail! And good luck hunting for a wedding outfit. I went out shopping just after my 4 days in Italy (!!!!!) but actually found something surprisingly enough!
ReplyDeleteI'm all for helping these people, but not at the expense of safety, enforcing laws and a clean town. One solution, as they were camping on railroad property (but right in town) was the railroad brought in huge rocks and filled the area. How about the police enforce the law? Last year, the council put up a couple of sanicans in town, under the guise that it was for the "commuters at the train station parking". Within days they were used to do drugs in and have sex in.....the community put up a fuss and they got removed.
ReplyDeleteI am glad I don't have to find another wedding dress. Now everyone here is all wedded and the granddaughter is just fine, so I have a few more years before I have to worry about hers.
ReplyDeleteSorry about the shape of the town. I am neither liberal nor conservative but live smack in the center. Some programs are good only in theory and some are wonderful and necessary. The real trick is to establish and maintain services that work and get rid of those that provide no real benefit to individuals and the community. It is a juggling act.
Since it's a tiny, outdoor wedding with just a handful of guests, I'm just getting a sleeveless summer dress and some flat sandals (which I already have).
DeleteI am liberal, but do not want to live with the detritus of druggies. These attorneys are not serving the public good, not even the good of the druggies. Maybe the state can take over and see that the people who are in danger from the newcomers are protected.
ReplyDeleteThe state is also encouraging/allowing it. It's a very sad way to live on both sides.
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