Guess what?! I'm going to be a grandma. No, not DD......she has a brain in her head....no, it's the DS...you know the one who can't even support himself? So, his 33 year old girlfriend, of 2 or 3 months, he lives with, is pregnant (she already has one no father in the picture 9 year old kid). Ya, great. A grandchild we'll never get to see or know. Just peachy news, eh? I guess about all's we can do is pray for that innocent baby, who will be born to a cigarette smoking and pot smoking momma (and dad). Sad.
Our renter neighbor found a "work around" solution to his landlord telling him he can't park his junk at the house or on the vacant lot next door, owned by the developer guy. Friday night they were mowing the neighbor lady's yard who lives behind us in the alley...now we know "why". He's apparently told her he'd mow her foot tall lawn in exchange for being able to park his trailer and junk truck on her property! LOL. He even got to use her water (apparently she's on a well system) and pressure wash it on her lawn! What a deal he's got going. haha.
Nice weather in 80's past few days. I added a few plants. I finally got some herbs for my two vintage tea tins to put in the kitchen window ledge. I think I should get one more tin. I also found this cute succulent bowl at Lowes, while we were there picking up some screws and more grass seed. The empty picnic table needed something on it. Hopefully I don't kill the plants!
Parsley and peppermint. The peppermint smells good, too.
I have a department at work annoying the heck out of me. What should be basic, repetitive type requests for PO's and invoices have constantly become a series of emails I have to send because they don't supply me with the info I need or are only giving me partial info. One girl is new, so she gets a complete pass, but the other has been there for years and knows the drill. Don't send me a customer PO to order some parts for and not give me the ship to address. Just dumb. Or she'll give me the name of the company it ships to.......um..ok...they have 3 branches, which one? Not to mention it's not my job to have to look up the address, it's hers! I just politely email back "can you give me the ship to address, please". I got one request today to invoice a customer for some service work. But the customer PO doesn't match what's in our system for the service dollar amount. So, I have to email back to clarify which amount I'm supposed to invoice. C'mon ladies....this is basic stuff. Then we recently started regularly ordering this one part from this one vendor. That's all we order from them. One at a flippin time. At first it was me ordering from them to direct ship to our customers (and then I bill our customers for it). Then the dept started pulling the part out of our (very limited) stock to fill the order and telling me to re-order for our stock.... one at a time......I'm like this is completely ridiculous and such an inefficient way to do this. If we are going to start stocking the part to fill the orders, then order a whole bunch at one time and place one big re-order when you are getting low. Not orders for quantity one from them, 3x a day!. I was just about to say something about it to my boss when she called me Monday morning apparently having the exact same thought as me. This is ridiculous. She got together with the ladies in this department and got them on a new plan to order these more efficiently. It's much easier for me to place one order a month, pay one invoice a month, rather than 20 separate orders a month and 20 separate vendor invoices to post and pay. It will obviously save them a ton of time, too, not having to send me an email 3x a day to place orders.
Your son may come back into your life to get babysitting help and money for the new life. The helpless child may be used as a lever. I don't mean to depress you, but I've seen it happen before.
ReplyDeleteyes, it's very possible. Though just for money...we now live 500 miles away from where he currently is, so no babysitting going on.
DeleteIt is sad to think you may not get to be a part of the babes life. I am sorry for that. Hopefully the baby will cause a change in behaviors of both parents.
ReplyDeleteit's very sad to think about. and even sadder is that if he does end up bringing us back into his life I have a feeling it will only really be because he wants something from us (ie money)
DeleteToo bad this baby isn't being born under better circumstances. One can only pray that the child brings about a change.
ReplyDeleteit's really hard to say, but I'm kind of thinking not, at least as far as their lifestyle goes - she already has one child she hasn't changed for. Who has a baby at 33 years old with a 25 year old you just met, who has a job barely making over min wage (but hey, at least he has a job now).
DeleteSending virtual hugs your way...
ReplyDeleteThank you!!
DeleteSo sorry to read of your distress. Sending warm thoughts your way. Prayers for the baby to be!
ReplyDeleteThank you for the kind words. It's appreciated
DeleteOh, to have what should be one of the happiest times of your life spoiled by such irresponsibility is so sad. Sadly it seems to happen quite a lot. "Oh let's have a baby, it would so cute", then no idea how they were going to support it". When my son was 21 and just starting out as an apprentice (i.e. making 50% of the minimum wage) his gf made a comment about how some people were going around saying she was pregnant but it wasn't true! I just sad, if you do, you'd better be damn sure you can afford daycare on top of rent (they were both still living with me at the time - rent and food supplied). 4 years later they live together and seem to have a good eye on things. For your son I imagine you will expect the worst and hope for the best. Good luck. Anna
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